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04 / 06 / 2026
Romantic Beauty
Words by JOUISSANCE
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A Literary Guide

Strolling around secret gardens on sunlit afternoons, lying in the grass with a new lover and a half-read book resting on your chest: summertime makes everything feel infinitely more romantic. More whimsical. Time stretches and fractures, soft and wild in just the right proportions. Hours, days and weeks pass by in a kind of dreamlike haze.

Longer days and warmer weather compound our longing for a free-spirited fantasy in many facets of our lives: in the clothes we adorn, the rituals we practice, how we paint our faces, the nostalgic scents we turn to. To celebrate the romantic renaissance, this month’s Diary explores romantic beauty and its literary roots. Consider this your invitation to embrace a hypersentimental new mood this season.
NATURAL BEAUTY

For the Romantics of the early 19th century, romance was elemental, found in nature itself, pulsing through paintings, novels and poetry. Take, for instance, William Wordsworth’s poem for his wife Mary Hutchinson, ‘She Was a Phantom of Delight’ published in 1807. Her “dusky hair” is compared to twilight. Not long after this, during the Pre-Raphaelite period, artists became fixated on the original poster girl for romantic beauty: Ophelia. In John William Waterhouse’s 1894 imagining, Shakespeare’s beautiful and ill-fated heroine sits on a willow branch next to a pond of lilies with daisies in her lap. Her beauty exists in harmony with her lush surroundings – her scarlet lips and flushed cheeks matching the poppies adorning her freely flowing long auburn hair.

Thomas Hardy’s Tess of the d’Urbervilles describes the natural, sensual allure of Tess Durbeyfield’s “pouted-up deep red mouth”, painting an image of just-bitten (or just-been-kissed) lips, his prose amplifying that in-between space of innocence and erotic experience. Marguerite Duras’ 1984 novella The Lover simmers with a similar duality, set largely during an oppressively hot summer, a young girl’s stained mouth verges on indecence (“don’t tell me that hat’s innocent, or the lipstick, it all means something, it’s to attract attention”).

Tess film still (1979), directed by Roman Polanski

Tess film still (1979), directed by Roman Polanski

Her peony mouth and large innocent eyes added eloquence to colour and shape. The pouted-up deep red mouth to which this syllable was native had hardly as yet settled into its definitive shape, and her lower lip had a way of thrusting the middle of her top one upward.

– Excerpt from Tess of the d’Urbervilles by Thomas Hardy (published in 1891)

Sofia Coppola, filmmaker and auteur of girlhood, told an interviewer once that when she was younger she was desperate to emulate Nastassja Kinski in Tess, the 1979 film adaptation of Hardy’s novel, nibbling on strawberries “that left her with perfectly berry-stained lips.” A cinematic moment that would have her searching for a lip stain that had a lived-in charm, was void of harsh lines and unmistakably romantic.


EN PLEIN AIR, captured by Rose Mihman

MADE YOU BLUSH

I sometimes wished to have rosy cheeks, a straight nose, and a small cherry mouth.

Jane Eyre, by Charlotte Brontë (published in 1847)

Charlotte Brontë's protagonist Jane Eyre wanted a face filled with yearning. All red lips (the colour most associated with love, longing and passion) and flushed cheeks.

Of course, a woman blushing has many different meanings, but is forever imbued with feeling. A blush is a truth-teller. On a soft, sweet note, it is the visual manifestation of youth, feminine virtue, a by-product of being out and about in nature. On the other hand, it can be a sign of being embarrassed or shamed, caught in the act of “turning red”. During the Rococo era, Marie Antoinette’s vivid rouge, heavily applied in circles to her cheeks, signalled her status. For others, it signals an obvious arousal, a sexual awakening, like Miriam in D. H. Lawrence’s Sons and Lovers.

She suddenly became aware of his keen blue eyes upon her, taking her all in. Instantly her broken boots and her frayed old frock hurt her. She resented his seeing everything. Even he knew that her stocking was not pulled up. She went into the scullery, blushing deeply. And afterwards her hands trembled slightly at her work. She nearly dropped all she handled. When her inside dream was shaken, her body quivered with trepidation. She resented that he saw so much.
– Excerpt in Sons and Lovers by D. H. Lawrence (published in 1913)

Ophelia by John William Waterhouse, 1894

Miss Fay Wray as Ophelia, photo by Edward Steachen in 1930

Marie Antoinette film still (2006), directed by Sofia Coppola

Jane Eyre film still (2011), directed by Cary Joji Fukunaga

THE SCENT OF LOVE

Erotic, romantic, obsessive, delightfully twisted at times, JOUISSANCE is born from literary passions in different guises. Intimacies shared in secret diaries, with someone you shouldn’t, with more than one person, with yourself. Each fragrance evokes a feeling, a memory, a longing.

“Objects make a woman happy,” as Zelda Fitzgerald once told a newspaper. “The right kind of perfume…they are great comforts to the feminine soul.” For the Save Me the Waltz author, her attachment to a particular scent was not unlike a romantic relationship. She wrote in a letter that it was “so sensorily gratifying that I wanted more of it.” In 1971 the novelist and short story writer, Clarice Lispector, wrote a dictionary of flowers, casting the perfume as a romantic heroine with a “feminine mystery about it.”

Rose : The feminine flower; she gives herself so wholly and so generously that, for her, there remains only the joy of having given herself. Her perfume has a feminine mystery about it; if inhaled deeply, it touches the depths of the heart and leaves the body entirely perfumed. The way she opens out into a woman is exquisitely beautiful. Her petals taste good in the mouth: just try. Red roses, or the Black Prince variety, are enormously sensual. Yellow ones are alarmingly cheerful. White ones are peace. Pink ones are generally fleshier and their color is just perfect. Orange roses are sexually attractive.

– Clarice Lispector

The Romance of Perfume by Richard Le Galleienne, published in 1928

1972 Penguin edition of The Other One by Colette, included in the JOUISSANCE bookshop

The Age of Innocence film still (1993), directed by Martin Scorsese

For the French author Colette – described once by a literary critic as an "olfactory novelist," a title she wore proudly – romance and scent were positively inseparable. In one sensual vignette in Nuit Blanche (meaning 'White Night'), published in her short story collection The Tendrils of the Vine in 1908, she relives her memories of her mistress Mathilde de Morny (otherwise known as “Missy”), their love, her scent, their summery walks together. Their bed transforms into an open bottle. “A halo of perfume envelops it,” Colette writes. Emanating the scent of her lover's favourite tobacco, burnt sandalwood and the rustic scent of crushed grass.

Romantic beauty is a dreamscape. Delicate and dramatic; feminine and pleasingly rebellious. It can be a moment of escapism in a time of turmoil, an opportunity to indulge in, for a little while longer, a fantasy of your own making.
Words by JOUISSANCE
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