The first sip of a good coffee in a Parisian café, skin scented with perfume, silk stockings: Eternal JOUISSANCE muse Anaïs Nin took great pleasure in seeking such “beautiful and good things”, adorning her creative space with beautiful objects and making time for little luxuries, daily rituals that would make life feel that bit more extraordinary. A diarist for decades, freely documenting her secret desires and impulses, exploring the edges of her relationships – both with herself and others – she was also, perhaps unsurprisingly, a letter writer par excellence.

There is a sense of drama that arrives with a hand-written letter – a private keepsake created solely for its recipient and not intended to be shared with anyone else. A secret, signed, sealed and delivered. What a gift for a writer to see ink or smell traces of fragrance on the page meant for their eyes only. As Gustave Flaubert wrote to the poet and his “dear little mistress” Louise Colet (said to have inspired his 1856 masterpiece Madame Bovary): “I look at your slippers, your handkerchief, your hair, your portrait. I reread your letters and breathe their musky perfume.” Whether Colet specifically spritzed her notes with perfume – a ritual we wholly encourage – we’ll never know, but it does highlight a heightened sensorial experience upon reading. As Edith Wharton beautifully wrote on the joys of being on the receiving end of a love letter: “the first glance to see how many pages there are, the breathless first reading, the slow lingering over each phrase and each word, the taking possession, the absorbing of them one by one, and finally the choosing of the one that will be carried in one's thoughts all day, making an exquisite accompaniment to the dull prose of life."

After first meeting in Paris in 1931, Anaïs Nin and Henry Miller – both married at the time – exchanged passionate letters throughout the decade, full of desperate urgency. Henry writes to Anaïs: "Anais, you have become so vital a part of me that I’m completely upside down, if this means anything. I don’t know what I write – only that I love you, that I must have you exclusively, fiercely, possessively." Amongst these intensely worded displays of affection, there is also a hunger to invite the other into daily life — years stretching with long, literary ramblings that set the scene, recount idle days, ask for money, and describe books read, dreams had, and ideas half-formed.

Nin returned such effusive appreciation for Miller’s works in progress: “there is a spiral, in you, in your book. Rich, richer than any writer or man yet known to me.” These private notes reveal two artists entwined in a profound intellectual seduction. In love with each other but above all, in love with each other’s words. Similarly, in Quiet Moments in a War: The Letters of Jean Paul Satre to Simone De Beauvoir 1940-1963, Sartre’s letters reveal a sense of his total devotion to De Beauvoir and the power of her text. “My darling Beaver,” he writes. “Two enchanted little letters from you today. Enchanted and enchanting...”

Rather than springing from a rapturous union, love letters exist precisely due to distance. It is separation, one's lover's inaccessibility, that moves ink to transfer onto paper. There’s the short and sweet style adopted by Man Ray, writing to Lee Miller from his home studio, featuring 10 scribbled "miss yous" and signed off, simply:

Elsewhere, letters between Vita Sackville-West and Virginia Woolf serve as proof of their unfurling intimacy in the mid 1920s, along with West’s unguarded pent-up frustration, exposing her desire to be in the same room as her beloved.

In Antonia Fraser’s 1970s anthology Love Letters, the author dedicates an entire section to rejection. A universal, if heart-breaking, side-effect in one’s attempt to find and hold onto love is the risk that we will lose it. Loss is a part of love’s makeup, the less rosy side. Fraser opens this chapter with an excerpt from Jean Rhys’s Voyage in The Dark, when Anna receives a letter from her lover’s friend, Vincent, informing her that Walter is sorry but wishes to end their affair. It closes with one of literature’s most devastating PS's:

The enduring charm of a love letter is that it asks nothing in return – it can be read without reply. It is a record of feeling. An object that contains memories, promises and the simple romantic gesture of reminding someone they were in your thoughts today. Which is not, as Nin points out to Miller, the same as being beside you today. “Did you mind what I wrote you yesterday? So much literature, so many ideas, which cover up without replacing the human moments when we sit in a café without talking, and I lean my head on your shoulder and say: I don’t want to go home now Henry.”