
It is a truth universally acknowledged that the month of December sees one seeking a good party. Softly lit rooms filled with flirtation, fragrances vying for each other’s attention, characters (the good, the bad, the outrageous), spilled drinks on silk dresses, secrets exchanged.
In the celebratory spirit of the season, last week JOUISSANCE gathered friends, creatives and writers for a special evening, to toast to our very first Christmas pop-up store in Notting Hill. A place where our circle could step into our world IRL, and take home a new fragrance, a book with a past life, and a sealed, secret santa love letter. To mark the moment, this month’s Diary entry provides you with a literary girl starter pack to guide you through the festive period. From Jean Rhys on the power of perfume that will make your guests dizzy with desire to literary good-time girls whose charm still lingers.
Setting the scene begins with a crucial ingredient: inviting an eclectic mix of interesting personalities with whom to mingle. The Bloomsbury set’s soirees, for example, attracted the likes of artists such as Picasso, novelists, artists and film stars. “Sex permeated our conversation,” wrote Virginia Woolf in her Old Bloomsbury essay (published posthumously in Moments of Being, a collection of her unpublished autobiographical writings). In fact Woolf’s fourth novel set in 1920s London, Mrs Dalloway, could be read as an exercise in party planning. Documenting a single day in the life of “the perfect hostess” Clarissa Dalloway, which involves a morning buying flowers, an afternoon disco napping and an evening getting ready.
Similarly, Joan Didion’s rigorous approach to designing the perfect literary dinner in the 1970s is documented in the form of scribbled notes, handwritten recipes and guest lists which included the likes of Patti Smith and Warren Beatty. If Didion seemed at all stressed, she did an exceptional job of disguising her anxieties. As Sex and Rage author Eve Babitz said: “She [Didion] could make dinner for forty people with one hand tied around her back while everybody else was passed out on the floor.”
It is impossible to disentangle Eve Babitz The Writer from Eve Babitz The Party Girl, they meld into one. “If you live in L.A., to reckon time is a trick since there are no winters,” writes Eve Babitz, in her confessional 1974 novel Eve’s Hollywood. “There are just earthquakes, parties, and certain people.” Fun for Babitz wasn’t frivolous, it was her religion in many ways. The thing she looked up to, chased, documented in her work and never lost sight of — a treasure trove of unending curiosities. She took pride in introducing the likes of, say, Salvador Dalí to Frank Zappa. She loved name dropping. Sneaking into private gatherings. Surrounding herself with beauty and living in the moment because the other option seemed a far less intoxicating enterprise.



According to Save Me the Waltz author Zelda Fitzgerald, youth doesn’t need friends, it only needs crowds! She and her husband F. Scott Fitzgerald, an indulgent and rather restless pair, adored a crowd. More was more. Their champagne-filled extracurricular activities would unsurprisingly bleed into their writing: Zelda partly inspired the character of socialite Daisy Buchanan in The Great Gatsby, featuring arguably the most iconic of party mansions in literary history. Mrs Fitzgerald delighted in the joy of drawing attention to herself, of putting on makeup, of playing dress up. In her June 1922 piece for Metropolitan Magazine called ‘Eulogy on the Flapper’, 22-year-old Zelda wrote:
The Flapper awoke from her lethargy of sub-deb-ism, bobbed her hair, put on her choicest pair of earrings and a great deal of audacity and rouge and went into the battle. She flirted because it was fun to flirt and wore a one-piece bathing suit because she had a good figure, she covered her face with powder and paint because she didn’t need it and she refused to be bored chiefly because she wasn’t boring. She was conscious that the things she did were the things she had always wanted to do.



The literary party girl has a history of leaning on a statement look. There’s the ice-breaker outfit in the style of LES CAHIERS SECRETS muse and author Anais Nin, who once turned up to a “Come As Your Madness party” in the 1950s dressed in a skin-coloured leotard, a fur belt, and her head inside a birdcage. Or young flapper girl Lorelei Lee in Anita Loos’ 1925 social satire Gentleman Prefer Blondes, who has her heart set on a diamond tiara. For others, it is their paintbox bright manes which mirrors their love of excess. From the flame-haired Felicity in Renee Auden’s novel The Party, which follows her erotic adventures, to pink haired 21-year-old Sally in Elaine Dundy’s 1958 The Dud Avocado (published the same year as Truman Capote's Breakfast at Tiffany’s, which featured another incandescent party girl, Holly Golightly), a young American in Paris who is on a mission to live her life to the fullest, to collect lovers and roam from one café to another…
"The world is wide, wide, wide, and I am young, young, young, and we’re all going to live forever!"
— The Dud Avocado by Elaine Dundy

For the more mysterious JOUISSANCE party girls? A distinctive fragrance, rather than a dress or new hairstyle, can induce just the right amount of envy in your fellow guests. For instance, in Jean Rhys’ novel, Quartet, a young woman (Marya Zelli) becomes momentarily obsessed with another “outstandingly pretty” girl, Mademoiselle Simone Chardin, while drinking aperitifs in a café at the Rue Lamartine.
She was young, swarthy, and wore a red dress tightly fitting and long sleeved, buttoned up closely to the throat. She spoke very little. ‘I’m here,’ her eyes seemed to say, ‘because for the moment I can’t find anything better to do. But don’t try to mix me up too much with your affairs.’
— Quartet by Jean Rhys
Once Mademoiselle Chardin had taken off her hat, Marya breathed in the scent of the stranger’s warm perfume before asking her what she was wearing. With an air of urgency, and hope that in some way she, too, could absorb this girl about town’s self-possession.
“I? L’Heure Bleue of Guerlain.”

Jean-Paul Sartre once famously said, hell is other people. And yet, one of the great loves of his life, Simone de Beauvoir, took the opposite view. “In songs, laughter, dances, eroticism, and drunkenness,” de Beauvoir writes in The Ethics of Ambiguity, “one seeks both an exaltation of the moment and a complicity with other men.” She was a dedicated partygoer, even during the occupation of Paris.
We merely wanted to snatch a few nuggets of sheer joy from this confusion and intoxicate ourselves with their brightness, in defiance of the disenchantments that lay ahead.
— Simone de Beauvoir
Meeting new people, a good party — these are valuable experiences to cherish. Bathing in a moment, however fleeting it may be, of sheer and unapologetic pleasure.

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