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12 / 03 / 2026
Anaïs Nin
Words by JOUISSANCE
Anais Nin, by Soichi Sunami in 1942
Behind the Bottle

JOUISSANCE was sparked by the words of women who taught us to desire. Our fragrances are unapologetically feminine, evocative of the literary and sensual interior lives of women who held up a mirror to their secret selves and erotic discoveries, their intense pleasures and pains. This Women’s Month we’re taking a moment to celebrate the three iconic female writers behind the JOUISSANCE scents – first up, LES CAHIERS SECRETS muse Anaïs Nin.

THE ORIGINAL LITERARY IT GIRL

Anaïs Nin’s longest relationship was arguably with writing itself. A diarist since the age of 11, she began in 1914 around the time her father, the Cuban pianist and composer Joaquín Nin, left the family home in Paris. Writing in her journal – in French, until she was 17; in English thereafter – was her refuge and “the only steadfast friend I have”. Using it as a space to workshop herself and capturing those in her orbit, the French-American writer amassed 150 handwritten notebooks archiving her thoughts, her successes, failures, fears, fantasies, love affairs, travels, and hunger for more life experience.

It is what I do with the journal, carrying it everywhere, writing on cafe tables while waiting for a friend, on the train, on the bus, in waiting rooms at the station, while my hair is washed, at the Sorbonne when the lectures get tedious, on journeys, trips, almost while people are talking. It is while cooking, gardening, walking, or love-making that I remember my childhood, and not while reading Freud's 'Preface to a Little Girl's Journal’.
– Anaïs Nin, The Diary of Anaïs Nin, Vol. 1: 1931-1934


Here, she could write freely and with wild abandon. Uncensored. Without a brief and the specific dread that came with writing for public consumption (in 1932, she wrote that she was terrified of her “conscious work”, concerned because whatever work she created without feeling lacked any real value for her).

We write to taste life twice, in the moment and in retrospection.
– Anaïs Nin, The Diary of Anaïs Nin, Vol. 5: 1947-1955

It was these private journals that would – at the age of 66 – cement her status as a literary icon after years cast as an underground author, with the publication of the edited pages of Diary of Anaïs Nin by Harcourt Brace in 1966, and later on the seven volumes that span the years 1931 to 1974, at a period when such candid and confessional writing was revelatory. Finally Nin was recast: as an artist, a writer, a sensualist and a woman whose truth was oftentimes more wildly imaginative than fiction.


Anaïs Nin at her Silver Lake home. Via the Anaïs Nin Foundation

First edition of The Early Diary of Anaïs Nin, Vol. 4, available to purchase at the JOUISSANCE bookshop

HER ROMANTIC RITUALS

Even in moments of hardship, Nin was well versed in the art of romanticising the everyday. Enjoyment was an essential part of her existence. Engaging with all her senses to feel more present, to feel more pleasure, to, simply, feel. Seeking out pockets of joy, whether it be a good coffee or adorning herself in silk stockings or her favourite perfume. “Luxury is not a necessity to me,” she wrote, “but beautiful things are.”

A sound bite from a 1970s interview conducted with Nin in her home in Los Angeles suggests that she did not see herself as a nostalgic person (at least not in her later years). Instead she chose to cherish the moments, to notice them in real time. The fragrance of a new season awakening. The subtle shift of light changing.

Spring evening, soft and balmy and beautiful. The smell of the earth rose in the stillness like a dream cloud.

― Anaïs Nin, The Early Diary of Anaïs Nin, Vol. 1: 1914-1920


LES CAHIERS SECRET by JOUISSANCE, inspired by the sensual and intellectual life of Anaïs Nin

A LIFE OF ECSTACY

Nin was masterful at writing sex scenes that were adventurous, lyrical and intimate, illuminating the female experience. This was true for both Anaïs Nin The Novelist and Anaïs Nin The Diarist, whose writing across both genres documented, over the years, her own intense extra-marital affairs with both men and women.

Monogamy was not made for Nin. Despite marrying her “loving husband” in the early 1920s, banker Hugh Parker Guiler, being a faithful wife could not satisfy her desires and she would soon indulge in her so-called “mistress sensibilities”. She seduced everyone from friends (a then-penniless Henry Miller) to her psychoanalyst (Otto Rank). Anaïs Nin’s romantic life was decorated with scandal. She ended up marrying musician Rupert Pole in 1955 while also still married to Hugh, leading a double domestic life.

I want to live only for ecstasy. Small doses, moderate loves, all half-shades, leave me cold. I like extravagance. Letters which give the postman a stiff back to carry, books which overflow from their covers, sexuality which bursts the thermometer.

– Anais Nin, 1933

Her relationship with Henry Miller is well documented in A Literate Passion, which archives their feverish 20-year handwritten letter exchanges. She also writes about her tangled love triangle with the writer and his wife, June Mansfield – who she describes as “the most beautiful woman on earth” in Henry and June (published in 1986, taken from her diaries).

You give me back a woman’s body, alive with hunger. You burn away the shell that men made of me. You make me feel like a poet again.
– Anaïs Nin’s letter to Henry Miller in 1932


A Literate Passion: Letters of Anais Nin and Henry Miller, 1932-1953

Henry and June film still (1990), by Philip Kaufman

Henry and June film still (1990), by Philip Kaufman

THE PARISIAN YEARS

Paris was her playground, the place where she came of age. The setting for her own erotic and artistic journey, where simply walking its streets, drinking in its sights, sounds and scents served as a kind of creative remedy.

In the early 1930s she became entrenched in a new bohemian circle of expatriate artists – including the literary likes of Henry Miller and Caresse Crosby and Lawrence Durrell – sharing their ideas and early story drafts in smoky cafes. “We were trying to be our own writers, and we didn’t have much respect for Hemingway or Fitzgerald,” she said in a later interview. “We weren’t thinking about them so much as about ourselves. I went to Gertrude Stein’s place once and found her very tyrannical.”

Nin and her husband would later move to a rustic dream house – a peaceful retreat from their 24 Boulevard Suchet apartment – with a wild garden in Louveciennes in the western suburbs of Paris. In Henry and June there’s a beautifully rich description of her garden in one passage, the visiting couple spellbound by the oddness of Louveciennes and “the smell of jasmine, the open fires in which I burned not logs but tree roots, which look like monsters.”


Anaïs Nin

Vintage copy of A Woman Speaks by Anaïs Nin, via the JOUISSANCE bookshop

Anaïs Nin’s personal library in her Silver Lake home in Los Angeles, photos by Chris Mottalini / via @tmagazine

90s Penguin edition of Little Birds by Anaïs Nin

ADVENTURES IN EROTICA

In the early 1940s, in desperate need of money, Nin was commissioned to write erotic fiction for a private client known only as “the collector.” Their crucial editing note? “Concentrate on sex. Leave out the poetry,” much to Nin’s disgust.

Intellectual, imaginative, romantic, emotional. This is what gives sex its surprising textures, its subtle transformations, its aphrodisiac elements.
– Anaïs Nin, Delta of Venus

It wasn’t until the 1970s she allowed her erotica – in Little Birds and Delta of Venus – to be released for publication to show the early efforts of a woman in a genre that had been the domain of men.

One short story in Delta of Venus opens with Linda, a married woman who accepts an invitation to a masked orgy. She observes ecstatic moaning, half-undone dresses, women caressing each other, the contours of unfamiliar bodies, heady desires taking over. Towards the end she becomes hypnotised by a stranger's scent, which reminds her of precious wood. “Waves of perfume dilated her body, opened it, prepared her to yield,” Anaïs wrote. “Her nerves were set for a climax, tense, responsive.”

Sometimes as she was about to cross a street, she would remember his scent so vividly that the turmoil between her legs would make her stand there, helpless, dilated. Something of it clung to her body and disturbed her at night when she was sleeping alone. She had never been so easily aroused.
– Excerpt from Anaïs Nin’s short story ‘Linda’, in Delta of Venus

Among her many passions, Anaïs Nin understood the sublime power of perfume. To seduce, to torment, to linger in a lover’s memory.

Henry Miller’s letter to Anaïs Nin in 1932

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"It was while writing a Diary that I discovered how to capture living moments," Anaïs Nin wrote. "In the Diary I only wrote of what interested me genuinely, what I felt most strongly at the moment, and I found this fervour, this enthusiasm produced a vividness which often withered in the formal work. Improvisation, free association, obedience to mood, impulse, brought forth countless images, portraits, descriptions, impressionistic sketches, symphonic experiments, from which I could dip at any time for material."

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